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SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sat May 18, 2024 11:55 am

jsteel wrote: ↑

Fri May 17, 2024 12:16 pm

You are having all the fun and releases.... May I ask if he still has sex with you?

Yes. He still uses me about once or twice a month. I would not necessarily refer to it as sex since it’s more like submitting to him. He decides when he wants to take me and goes for it.

Out of curiosity, is this submission something that you look forward to? Something that you encourage or try to work towards assuming you can get some release from it ... both from the contact and the interaction? It sounds very intriguing.

i wish my wife had an ex husband from before me, whom she could fuck again. i would absolutely encourage it! I would happily do what ever I could to bring them together. but, alas, i was my wife's first boyfriend, so she does not have an ex prior to me.

she has dated plenty of guys over the years we have been together, though, and I would love for her to see one of them again

inivisibletwin wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 03, 2024 4:05 pm

i wish my wife had an ex husband from before me, whom she could fuck again. i would absolutely encourage it! I would happily do what ever I could to bring them together. but, alas, i was my wife's first boyfriend, so she does not have an ex prior to me.

she has dated plenty of guys over the years we have been together, though, and I would love for her to see one of them again

IT - Social media does come in handy for remaking contact.

Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 03, 2024 4:32 pm

inivisibletwin wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 03, 2024 4:05 pm

i wish my wife had an ex husband from before me, whom she could fuck again. i would absolutely encourage it! I would happily do what ever I could to bring them together. but, alas, i was my wife's first boyfriend, so she does not have an ex prior to me.

she has dated plenty of guys over the years we have been together, though, and I would love for her to see one of them again

IT - Social media does come in handy for remaking contact.

good point! myabe I'll look some of them up!

Hi All. Just wanted to provide an update. Over the past year, I have been dealing with a lot of work stress. Our company was bought out by a bigger company, etc…. eventually I realized that I was also having anxiety. In February, I spoke to my doctor and he prescribed Zoloft. I am finally back to feeling normal however orgasming is virtually impossible. I have jerked for as long as 40 minutes without being able to orgasm. In the past, it was 3 minutes or less. Our bull sees this as a plus and now only allows me 5 minutes at a time to jerk. In the last, 5 minutes was way more than I needed, now it is impossible, it is so frustrating to be so horny and yet not able to cum.

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 8:27 am

Hi All. Just wanted to provide an update. Over the past year, I have been dealing with a lot of work stress. Our company was bought out by a bigger company, etc…. eventually I realized that I was also having anxiety. In February, I spoke to my doctor and he prescribed Zoloft. I am finally back to feeling normal however orgasming is virtually impossible. I have jerked for as long as 40 minutes without being able to orgasm. In the past, it was 3 minutes or less. Our bull sees this as a plus and now only allows me 5 minutes at a time to jerk. In the last, 5 minutes was way more than I needed, now it is impossible, it is so frustrating to be so horny and yet not able to cum.

So you get come in more than you get come out?

Sounds rough.

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 8:27 am

Hi All. Just wanted to provide an update. Over the past year, I have been dealing with a lot of work stress. Our company was bought out by a bigger company, etc…. eventually I realized that I was also having anxiety. In February, I spoke to my doctor and he prescribed Zoloft. I am finally back to feeling normal however orgasming is virtually impossible. I have jerked for as long as 40 minutes without being able to orgasm. In the past, it was 3 minutes or less. Our bull sees this as a plus and now only allows me 5 minutes at a time to jerk. In the last, 5 minutes was way more than I needed, now it is impossible, it is so frustrating to be so horny and yet not able to cum.

Thanks for the update SoFLCuck

Does this leave you feeling even more submissive to your Wife and Her bull compared to when you were sometimes allowed to cum?
Has your Wife provided any comments to the situation? Does She agree with Her bull that this is a plus?

Sincerely
elina

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 8:27 am

Hi All. Just wanted to provide an update. Over the past year, I have been dealing with a lot of work stress. Our company was bought out by a bigger company, etc…. eventually I realized that I was also having anxiety. In February, I spoke to my doctor and he prescribed Zoloft. I am finally back to feeling normal however orgasming is virtually impossible. I have jerked for as long as 40 minutes without being able to orgasm. In the past, it was 3 minutes or less. Our bull sees this as a plus and now only allows me 5 minutes at a time to jerk. In the last, 5 minutes was way more than I needed, now it is impossible, it is so frustrating to be so horny and yet not able to cum.

SFC - So making the assumption you actually get hard, the plus is your endurance is practically off the charts.
- Seems to me your wife has the perfect opportunity, if she has a GF who "is in need", to lend your dick out, with the proviso of you being used as nothing more than a human dildo. You aren't to move, touch, fondle, kiss, caress and if desired be gagged and or blindfolded. You just lay there and the given GF can go to town in cowgirl mode until her needs are met.

elina wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 11:29 am

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 8:27 am

Hi All. Just wanted to provide an update. Over the past year, I have been dealing with a lot of work stress. Our company was bought out by a bigger company, etc…. eventually I realized that I was also having anxiety. In February, I spoke to my doctor and he prescribed Zoloft. I am finally back to feeling normal however orgasming is virtually impossible. I have jerked for as long as 40 minutes without being able to orgasm. In the past, it was 3 minutes or less. Our bull sees this as a plus and now only allows me 5 minutes at a time to jerk. In the last, 5 minutes was way more than I needed, now it is impossible, it is so frustrating to be so horny and yet not able to cum.

Thanks for the update SoFLCuck

Does this leave you feeling even more submissive to your Wife and Her bull compared to when you were sometimes allowed to cum?
Has your Wife provided any comments to the situation? Does She agree with Her bull that this is a plus?

Sincerely
elina

I definitely feel more submissive to both of them. Wife has made a lot of comments. She told me it was a pitty that this didn’t happen when I was allowed to have sex. She also told me with a smirk that our bull would be doing me a favor by caging me so that I can avoid the disappointment and frustration. Our bull tells me that my dick is totally useless since it can fuck and now it can even orgasm.

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 8:27 am

Hi All. Just wanted to provide an update. Over the past year, I have been dealing with a lot of work stress. Our company was bought out by a bigger company, etc…. eventually I realized that I was also having anxiety. In February, I spoke to my doctor and he prescribed Zoloft. I am finally back to feeling normal however orgasming is virtually impossible. I have jerked for as long as 40 minutes without being able to orgasm. In the past, it was 3 minutes or less. Our bull sees this as a plus and now only allows me 5 minutes at a time to jerk. In the last, 5 minutes was way more than I needed, now it is impossible, it is so frustrating to be so horny and yet not able to cum.

SoFL,

I'd be a bit worried, if were you. I'm a lawyer, not a doctor, but it's my understanding if you do not release sperm/semen, your risk of prostate cancer can rise, perhaps significantly. I read that somewhere some time ago; not sure how accurate it is; but still......

I have no idea about what Zoloft can or cannot do for anxiety; but I'm sure it's not the only anti-anxiety medication out there. I would get with my Dr. ASAP, and see if there is another med out there that might work.

IMHO, what your bull sees as a "positive" is irrelevant when it comes to your physical health or lack thereof. If you are no longer able to do something that you have been able to do for a long, long, time, I would be worried; and the bull-cuck dynamic then becomes irrelevant. JMHO......

I am not a doctor either,

But I do have some background from science. From what I understood, the often cited risk from remaining chaste for prolonged period of times goes back to a few studies where it is not clear how statistically significant the results were.

It is always a challenge to design this kind of study properly. It needs a reasonable number of participants for both the test and the control group to ensure statistical significance. For this particular issue also, the studies would have to run for prolonged periods of time.

Those who are concerned about this risk may want to resort to a prostrate milking; when done properly, this will result in the semen leaking out, from reading about this it is not particularly pleasureable for the male...

Sincerely
elina

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 1:47 pm

elina wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 11:29 am

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 8:27 am

Hi All. Just wanted to provide an update. Over the past year, I have been dealing with a lot of work stress. Our company was bought out by a bigger company, etc…. eventually I realized that I was also having anxiety. In February, I spoke to my doctor and he prescribed Zoloft. I am finally back to feeling normal however orgasming is virtually impossible. I have jerked for as long as 40 minutes without being able to orgasm. In the past, it was 3 minutes or less. Our bull sees this as a plus and now only allows me 5 minutes at a time to jerk. In the last, 5 minutes was way more than I needed, now it is impossible, it is so frustrating to be so horny and yet not able to cum.

Thanks for the update SoFLCuck

Does this leave you feeling even more submissive to your Wife and Her bull compared to when you were sometimes allowed to cum?
Has your Wife provided any comments to the situation? Does She agree with Her bull that this is a plus?

Sincerely
elina

I definitely feel more submissive to both of them. Wife has made a lot of comments. She told me it was a pitty that this didn’t happen when I was allowed to have sex. She also told me with a smirk that our bull would be doing me a favor by caging me so that I can avoid the disappointment and frustration. Our bull tells me that my dick is totally useless since it can fuck and now it can even orgasm.

I can understand how this is leaving you feeling more submissive.
One aspect is that long-term denial on its own tend to make beta-males more submissive.
But when both your Wife and Her Bull is humiliating you this way on top of it... I guess the combined effect will be profound. Better learn to enjoy it!!

Sincerely
elina

Good afternoon. I have received many private messages asking me for my KIK account again to stay in touch real time. My old KIK no longer works. I set up a new account which is SoFLFun1.

Try taking Wellbutrin. It is widely known not to have sexual side effects.

Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 12:01 pm

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 8:27 am

Hi All. Just wanted to provide an update. Over the past year, I have been dealing with a lot of work stress. Our company was bought out by a bigger company, etc…. eventually I realized that I was also having anxiety. In February, I spoke to my doctor and he prescribed Zoloft. I am finally back to feeling normal however orgasming is virtually impossible. I have jerked for as long as 40 minutes without being able to orgasm. In the past, it was 3 minutes or less. Our bull sees this as a plus and now only allows me 5 minutes at a time to jerk. In the last, 5 minutes was way more than I needed, now it is impossible, it is so frustrating to be so horny and yet not able to cum.

SFC - So making the assumption you actually get hard, the plus is your endurance is practically off the charts.
- Seems to me your wife has the perfect opportunity, if she has a GF who "is in need", to lend your dick out, with the proviso of you being used as nothing more than a human dildo. You aren't to move, touch, fondle, kiss, caress and if desired be gagged and or blindfolded. You just lay there and the given GF can go to town in cowgirl mode until her needs are met.

I know I'm super late to this party... and I'm sure I'm not the only one with this information, but nobody else said it...

I was on anti-depressents for 1-2 years, a few years ago. I needed them for many reasons, and when those reasons passed, I weened myself off, hit the gym and did cardio things again, and got back to normal.

Anti-depressants worked great on my non-sex problems, made me react much better to silly situation that were setting me off and making me not good to be around.

But it definitely effected my sex drive. It was much harder to have an erection. I think it was almost like a chemical castration. It became impossible to fuck my wife properly because I could play with it and barely put it in, like 75% hard.... and it would get soft. The blue pill sorta worked.. but didn't solve my issue with lack of desire. And although physically my body didn't want it, mentally I was frustrated.

That is definitely NOT my kink. I want it to work and I love that exclamation point orgasm after the sensual buildup and my wife wants me hard.

But to each his own.

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 16, 2024 1:47 pm

I definitely feel more submissive to both of them. Wife has made a lot of comments. She told me it was a pitty that this didn’t happen when I was allowed to have sex. She also told me with a smirk that our bull would be doing me a favor by caging me so that I can avoid the disappointment and frustration. Our bull tells me that my dick is totally useless since it can fuck and now it can even orgasm.

How do comments like this make you feel? Is her saying things like that a turn on for you, or does this sometimes hurt?

Hi All. Its been a very long time since I posted, so I just wanted to wish everyone a very happy holiday season. Things continue to go very well for us. It’s hard to believe that it’s been 4 1/2 years. I can no longer imagine being in any other type of relationship. Bull continues to be very dominant, which keeps the spark going.

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sat Dec 21, 2024 4:37 am

Hi All. Its been a very long time since I posted, so I just wanted to wish everyone a very happy holiday season. Things continue to go very well for us. It’s hard to believe that it’s been 4 1/2 years. I can no longer imagine being in any other type of relationship. Bull continues to be very dominant, which keeps the spark going.

SFC
- Nice of you to drop by and things are going ok.
- If you have adventures to tell us of that would be great.

Tryagain wrote: ↑

Fri Jun 21, 2024 9:26 am

Try taking Wellbutrin. It is widely known not to have sexual side effects.

I didn't know that Wellbutrin was "widely known not to have sexual side effects"......but I can certainly confirm that this is the case.

My Dr. put me on Wellbutrin in January of 1994....and it did not diminish my libido one iota.

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sat Dec 21, 2024 4:37 am

Hi All. Its been a very long time since I posted, so I just wanted to wish everyone a very happy holiday season. Things continue to go very well for us. It’s hard to believe that it’s been 4 1/2 years. I can no longer imagine being in any other type of relationship. Bull continues to be very dominant, which keeps the spark going.

Thanks for the interesting update - glad to hear everything´s going well! In June this year you wrote about problems achieving an orgasm related to taking Zoloft. You mentioned remarks both from your wife as well as her bull about your dick being even more useless than before.

Does this problem still exist? If it does, does this keep reinforcing your status relative to your wife in a way that suits all three of you?

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Sat Dec 21, 2024 4:37 am

Hi All. Its been a very long time since I posted, so I just wanted to wish everyone a very happy holiday season. Things continue to go very well for us. It’s hard to believe that it’s been 4 1/2 years. I can no longer imagine being in any other type of relationship. Bull continues to be very dominant, which keeps the spark going.

Thanks for the interesting update - glad to hear everything´s going well! In June this year you wrote about problems achieving an orgasm related to taking Zoloft. You mentioned remarks both from your wife as well as her bull about your dick being even more useless than before.

Does this problem still exist? If it does, does this keep reinforcing your status relative to your wife in a way that suits all three of you?

Good to hear from you, happy holidays and please more update...

any updates

Hi All. Hope everyone is doing well. Things are still great with us. We’ve learned over the past month that that I can no longer achieve an erection. Not sure if that’s a blessing or a curse. Over the past few months we’ve noticed that even when I get excited, I really wasn’t getting very hard. I’ve shared this with the wife and she’s given me two hand jobs where I have orgasmed both times but remained completely soft. I asked our bull if I should try viagra and he is against that.

I may have missed this - what happened ? I’d be worried about that.